I think I was delusional. Or something. I don't have very many girlfriends to do things with. Not that live in the state anyways. And I think I just wanted that female companionship. But I've decided now, that I wouldn't join a sorority now if they payed me!
Its funny tho. Sorority girls always think that other sorority girls are just as sweet as can be. The rest of know that most of them are bitchy skanks. Right now the ADPi pledges are wearing t-shirts with flip flops on the back and they say, "We started the sorority in 1851. So walk in our shoes, or follow in our shadows". Or something like that. I don't understand why they think they are so much better then everyone else? I mean, whats so great about being part of a group of people who are exactly like you? You all dress the same, act the same, look similar... whats so great about that? Part of what is great about my friends is that we all have some things in common, but for the most part, we're entirely different people from different backgrounds, different places, etc.
I wouldn't want all my friends to be just like me for the same reason I don't want to date anyone just like me. I mean, if you have ALL the same interests and like ALL the same things, its going to get really boring.
But whatever. Thats just me. Other then Aimee (and she's part of a Christian sorority) and Allie (who I knew before she pledged), I have NEVER met a sorority girl that I liked. And I really don't see that changing.
Although, I'm sure around Airband, I'll want to pledge, but I don't see it ever happening. I can think of better things to spend $400 + a semester on. Like purses, shoes and clothes. But most of these girls have mommy and daddy paying for everything and don't realize what its like to have to work, and have bills to pay. The lack of sorority girls was one thing I DEFINETLY didn't miss about this place.
stolen from chris' lj (because i am too lazy to retype)
"Phi Delt is on probation and it is causing more drama then ever. The problem is that if we have a party, and something happens, we're done. We used to be overlooked and stuff but now not so much. So it is basically bound to happen, and we lose the house, and some people go to jail. I voiced my opinion and everyone is mad at me now, cause I said not to have parties for obvious reasons, until were not on probation. I have supporters but they are emailing me privately, and so I am getting attacked. Fuck this, this is the last time I do this, and I dont wanna deal with this shit anymore. I am at home one night and my door was painted on, something about a giant penis and the word PENIS written on it. Kinda irks be, not much though. But fuck this I am done trying, and voicing shit cause I get no help."
Lovely, eh? I am so sick of this shit. I know it's not my place, and it's Chris' deal and all, but I hate seeing him this stressed out and unhappy. It's not fair. The only people acting like little shits are the guys who are young, and think that if life isn't a giant party then everything else can go to hell. I can't deal with this, and Chris shouldn't have to. UGH
So a friend of mine and I were talking about how this is it....only one more year of being "frat gf's" for us. We decided we need a countdown to help us. Just in case anyone else is in the same boat....
I joined a couple of months ago, but this is my first post.
I'm Heather and my guy is a memeber of Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia, and we've been together for about a year (September 16). He is the love of my life and I can't imagine it without him anymore.
While I love him very very much, I much dislike how some of his brothers voice their dislike for me. Some of them are good friends of mine now, but the others are a strong direct opposite. It's never a problem until we go to a frat party together. Then I feel very uncomfortable and find myself asking him if we can leave early; it makes me feel horrible. He says it's fine, but I'm determined to make it better.
School is about to start up again, and I was wondering if any of you girls had some advice on how to deal with these judgemental brothers? Please help!